neither. Cheating is not an option. If I am not enough for you and you feel like you need more or something else, then just tell me. None of that sneaky sh*t

 

i just had this happen to me. I feel that having another ongoing relationship is worse. I feel like one night is a lot more forgivable then putting effort into another relationship. if you think about it....in a one night stand. they have sex then it's it. in a relationship you're sharing your time. they're going out. money's being spent. time is being spent. emotions. all that. ppl are seeing them together. ppl know. it's more like a slap in the face that's broadcasted.

 

It'd probably be easier to forgive a drunken one night stand because it just happened one time when they weren't in their right state of mind and it was a mistake. Emotional cheating involves a lot more time and energy in building a relationship with someone and developing a relationship.

Emotional cheating is worse because you're allowing yourself to become involved with someone else, spending time and energy to better know this person to possibly take the relationship to the next level.....

 

To me, emotional cheating is on a way deeper level of betrayal than a physical relationship. I have experienced both and I can w/o a doubt say that the things that were said and things that were shared with that other person, in conversations, were far more damaging and hurtful than the physical aspect of it all.

 

cheating is cheating, regardless in what forms.. it hurts anyway!